How I Feel After 2 Weeks Of Being Married

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I woke up this morning and it dawned on me that I am married! I haven’t felt any different but maybe it’s because I have been wearing an engagement ring for a while so I feel normal.

After my wedding, I realized I am in a new phase now and I needed to enjoy the moment instead of being on Instagram every minute lol! So I deleted my app for a while and just started posting like a few days ago. For now, I’ll share everything about my wedding here so pls subscribe so you can get all the deets and see pictures of my trad, court wedding, bridal shower, and bachelorette.

A lot of people have been asking me how I feel and my answer has been ‘normal’, But I woke up this morning and looking through my wedding pictures and seeing everyone together, seeing pictures of my husband I feel so blessed and super happy and grateful.

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I hate to share but just maybe I should start sharing more here.

After breaking up with my ex in 2014, I kept praying to God to help me forget him and that I know he will give me a fine man that is caring, that loves me too much and that will adore me. The prayer was even out of anger and not a serious prayer, I just kept saying it to myself to feel better but do you know that God was listening. I met my Deji around this time when he sent me a DM on Instagram and I was like who is this nonsense fine boy that wants to come and destroy my destiny now lmao!!!

After all the disturbance I decided to answer him and I told my friends I will use him as a rebound guy. I didn’t care and I wasn’t serious. I just needed someone to tell me sweet words and make me feel better small after my heartbreak lol ( do not try this at home). He, however, refused to give up and I remember I made a decision to take him seriously in 2015 when I traveled to the U.S to see my sister and he kept calling me every damn time and I decided he was serious.

And so I gave it a shot. So girls don’t let any heartbreak stop you from trying out a new relationship but don’t forget to pray about it and ask God for your heart desires and just because he is a loving father, he will give u what u want. That’s why you hear people say be careful what u say because words are powerful. So instead of saying negative things speak positive things into your life. And most importantly don’t forget to reply that DM lol.

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So back to the question, ‘How do I feel’? I feel really blessed and grateful to God that I am marrying the love of my life and the man that I prayed for, that loves and adore me, teaches me things and is always here for me. For this I am grateful. This doesn’t mean everything is perfect or we are perfect but we understand and love each other and can deal with our madness and that is what is important.

I am still a new bride so the school of marriage hasn’t started like everyone says but I am enjoying my life for now and planning my 2019.

I am also really grateful to my family and friends for being amazing, all my vendors and wedding planner for all they did for us. By the way, if you need a wedding planner @victoriaandcompanyng and @elfevents are the way to go.

I think my wedding day was perfect. However there are a few things I would have changed, avoided or focused on but in all it was amazing. 

I have a lot more turnup pictures I want to share here so get ready for part 2.

Thank you for visiting

xoxo

15 Comments

  1. Salmah Abdulsalam
    16 December 2018 / 15:47

    Larisa, you may feel normal but I still can’t get over how beautiful you looked on all your events! You are fine sha! And Deji is so handsome and you both look perfect. Congratulations, this is the beginning of your happily ever after Hunny so enjoy!
    So you met Deji on instagram all this whole and I’m here refusing to answer DMs.. let me better go and check my DM and send replies this evening.

    • AIEGEE
      16 December 2018 / 17:11

      you just spoke my mind @Salmah

    • Larisa
      Author
      16 December 2018 / 17:51

      Awww Thank you so much love I am blushing seriously lol, Amen and Amen!!! Lmaoo yes oo better go and reply those dm’s now now

  2. 16 December 2018 / 17:32

    Congratulations ! May God bless your union. Your pictures are ravishing and you both were stunning. It was beautiful reading this, looking forward to others.

    • Larisa
      Author
      16 December 2018 / 17:52

      Thank you so much, Amen and Amen ❤️ Will deff post more 🙂

  3. 18 December 2018 / 18:45

    Congratulations again, May God bless your union and make you friends forever.

    • Larisa
      Author
      18 December 2018 / 19:27

      Thank you so so much and Amen ❤️

  4. WakaGirl
    19 December 2018 / 06:37

    Awww! Congrats Dear! God bless your Union!

    • Larisa
      Author
      20 December 2018 / 23:00

      Thank you so much 🙂

  5. 19 December 2018 / 07:40

    Congratulations Hun… You both looked stunning. God bless your Union. And Yes! to answering those DMs and professing what you want.

    • Larisa
      Author
      20 December 2018 / 23:01

      Thank you love Amen, lol yes oo its important

  6. Semnen
    20 December 2018 / 22:04

    i loveeee this posttttttt please bring on the turn up picturesssss pleaseeeee and happy married lifeeee.

  7. Louis
    25 December 2018 / 09:07

    Congratulations Larisa, it was a really beautiful wedding. God bless your marriage.

  8. 17 January 2019 / 22:23

    Such beautiful photos, Larisa! Please also make a post on the stuff you said about wanting to focus/change some things with your wedding – we’d love to know what you would go back in time and do! Happy Married Life! Hope this brings more delicious content our way – and you’re right about not giving up on love like that. Happy your story ended in such a nice way – ‘it goes down in the DM’ as they say lol

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  9. 18 January 2019 / 13:30

    I laughed so hard at nonsense fine boy that wants to destroy my destiny. My God!!
    Oh are such a beautiful bride!! Everything looks perfect. I am so happy for you.

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