I woke up this morning and it dawned on me that I am married! I haven’t felt any different but maybe it’s because I have been wearing an engagement ring for a while so I feel normal.
After my wedding, I realized I am in a new phase now and I needed to enjoy the moment instead of being on Instagram every minute lol! So I deleted my app for a while and just started posting like a few days ago. For now, I’ll share everything about my wedding here so pls subscribe so you can get all the deets and see pictures of my trad, court wedding, bridal shower, and bachelorette.
A lot of people have been asking me how I feel and my answer has been ‘normal’, But I woke up this morning and looking through my wedding pictures and seeing everyone together, seeing pictures of my husband I feel so blessed and super happy and grateful.
I hate to share but just maybe I should start sharing more here.
After breaking up with my ex in 2014, I kept praying to God to help me forget him and that I know he will give me a fine man that is caring, that loves me too much and that will adore me. The prayer was even out of anger and not a serious prayer, I just kept saying it to myself to feel better but do you know that God was listening. I met my Deji around this time when he sent me a DM on Instagram and I was like who is this nonsense fine boy that wants to come and destroy my destiny now lmao!!!
After all the disturbance I decided to answer him and I told my friends I will use him as a rebound guy. I didn’t care and I wasn’t serious. I just needed someone to tell me sweet words and make me feel better small after my heartbreak lol ( do not try this at home). He, however, refused to give up and I remember I made a decision to take him seriously in 2015 when I traveled to the U.S to see my sister and he kept calling me every damn time and I decided he was serious.
And so I gave it a shot. So girls don’t let any heartbreak stop you from trying out a new relationship but don’t forget to pray about it and ask God for your heart desires and just because he is a loving father, he will give u what u want. That’s why you hear people say be careful what u say because words are powerful. So instead of saying negative things speak positive things into your life. And most importantly don’t forget to reply that DM lol.
So back to the question, ‘How do I feel’? I feel really blessed and grateful to God that I am marrying the love of my life and the man that I prayed for, that loves and adore me, teaches me things and is always here for me. For this I am grateful. This doesn’t mean everything is perfect or we are perfect but we understand and love each other and can deal with our madness and that is what is important.
I am still a new bride so the school of marriage hasn’t started like everyone says but I am enjoying my life for now and planning
I am also really grateful to my family and friends for being amazing, all my vendors and wedding planner for all they did for us. By the way, if you need a wedding planner @victoriaandcompanyng and @elfevents are the way to go.
I think my wedding day was perfect. However there are a few things I would have changed, avoided or focused on but in all it was amazing.
I have a lot more turnup pictures I want to share here so get ready for part 2.
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