Does your Opinion Matter?

Hey Guys I saw a post on Inthefrow that got me thinking and this is a topic I have always wanted to write about but somehow I never did, I guess this is the right time.
Before you share your opinion ask yourself again, does your opinion matter? does it change the price of Garri? or decrease the price of dollar at the moment? If not then think again before you voice it out.
Most times we tend to share our opinion and even if it’s coming out of a positive place and you don’t Intend to be negative but do you really know how that person you are giving your opinion to about a particular subject might take it
The person might be depressed
The person might be Insecure about the particular subject
The person might be having a bad day and you end up making it worse or you end up making the person have a bad day.

So listen up! If you were having a bad day, will you be happy if someone comes up to you and share their opinion about something you are Insecure about? we need to start thinking before we talk or give an opinion. Fine no one is perfect because there have been times I thought I was given my honest true opinion about a subject and the person felt Insulted and angry and I kept thinking it’s just an opinion but listen! even a person you think has the thickest skin or a celebrity or billionaire still feels emotions if faced with Insults, opinions and critiques. 
I follow a lot of blogs and Instagram pages where I see celebrities replying people that give their “opinion” on how they should live their life and when they reply or Insult these people, others come out and say the celebrities are immature and that why should these celebrities reply and I am like yo! people! are they stones? they are humans with emotions and most times when you give a bad opinion or even an opinion coming out of a good place the person ends up being defensive because they feel like you should let them live their life the way they want.
The worst of it all is actually how you give these “opinions”. If you are going to give a positive opinion, the way it comes out matters
I have heard people say that’s how they are and they say it like they see it but you don’t have to be mean or Just blunt about it, the person might be having a bad day, How about saying it in a nice way and most times saying it in a nice way might not even go so well.

I learnt something this past year and also from victoria’s write up about giving opinions that I have actually decided to learn to keep a bad opinion to myself, fine I don’t like it, condone it, but that’s the person’s life.. let them be.
Also respect people’s opinions, whatever they choose to do, leave it at that, it’s their life only God can Judge, Just express your displeasure in your mind and keep it moving because people have emotions and it actually takes nothing to be quiet especially if it cannot enhance someones life in anyway.
I have actually learnt my lesson not to share a bad opinion about something someone takes time to do or a person’s art, If I don’t like it I’ll keep quiet or lock myself in my room and scream it out Lmao!! and I hope I can achieve this in 2016.
So let’s spread positivity and definitely there are people who will continue to spread hate or make people sad everyday, bash people but the change in the world has to start from you and I really want people to see that their words do hurt people and change.
So Guys before you voice your opinion think again…Does your opinion matter where it’s not needed?
I saw this quote and I love it..
” The people who believe that, because they’re in your life, they 
have a say in what you should do and that their opinion
should be considered. But when it comes to you and your life, you are the 
person who’s opinion matters”

So today I decided to go all white with a pop of colour with black shoes and bag… a lil oops to showing too much 
but it happens once in a while 😀 
I showed this blazer in my fav things in my closet video HERE and I love it, got it from misguided and it was on sale. I was sad when I checked sometime ago and the price got back to normal real quick but I am super happy you can get it for 10 pounds now, will leave the link below.
How would you style this blazer?
I would also love comments on the title for today, what do you think?
Have an amazing Day
xoxo
Blazer: Misguided HERE
Pants: Try HERE or HERE
bandeau: HERE or HERE

8 Comments

  1. 12 March 2016 / 12:08

    I am not one to share my opinion on social media..because it clearly isn't my business

    But hey!you can't be my friend and expect me not to air my view on something negative you do especially if it affects me.I try to sound as calm as possible and as much as am not perfect,I won't stand by and watch someone I care about go about something the wrong way.As long as I clear my conscience by saying my opinion,what and how you choose to live your life after that is entirely your business.
    That being said…

    Amazing outfit.
    I like the show of skin jare..make the look go from basic to glam.

    Stylebyenkay.blogspot.com

  2. 12 March 2016 / 12:55

    Lmao…I know those kind of friends

    Will be back soon…writing exams

    • 12 March 2016 / 12:59

      Awww goodluck love!! Sucess

  3. 13 March 2016 / 12:58

    While I do believe its important to think before your talk and also that people need to practice this quote "if you don't have something nice to say then don't say anything at all", I have to agree with the En_kay on this. As my friend it''s my duty to tell you the truth whether you want to hear it or not, because its coming from a good place. Anyways I love the all white pairing, the blazer really pops with the look as well. I would have preferred a different shoe choice but nicely done nevertheless.
    Princess Audu

    • 18 March 2016 / 12:01

      Very true…thats the most important thing 🙂 thanks love

  4. 16 March 2016 / 02:58

    Most people just find faults in little things, rather than looking for the best in it. It get really annoying when i see comments like "iron your skirt" and what not. But sometimes, it's good to ignore. btw I really love this look !

    http://www.desireeswardrobe.net

    • 18 March 2016 / 12:00

      I know right! Loll at Iron your skirt..smh and yes the best thing is to ignore. Thank you love 🙂

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